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For a long time, I didn’t know how to be in my Divine Feminine energy. I was in survival mode, constantly doing, controlling, and carrying the weight of everything on my own (mother of 2 girls). I thought I had to work for everything, prove my worth, and never rely on anyone.
But the truth is, I was blocking my own blessings.
I had to go through deep inner healing before I could truly embrace receiving mode and allow things to flow naturally into my life. Before you can step into your Divine Feminine energy, you have to heal your inner self—because if your heart is still wounded, you’ll keep attracting situations that reflect that pain.
Healing wasn’t just about letting go of the past—it was about releasing survival mode, trusting that I was already worthy of abundance, love, and ease, and understanding that I didn’t have to struggle to receive.
Once I shifted into my feminine energy, everything in my life changed.
Before You Can Step Into Divine Feminine Energy, Heal Your Inner Self
Many women want to embrace their Divine Feminine, but if you still feel:
- The need to be in control at all times
- Guilt around receiving or resting
- Unhealed wounds from past relationships
- Fear that you’ll be taken advantage of
…then you may still be operating in survival mode, which makes it harder to receive with ease.
💡 Healing First Steps:
✔ Release past pain by forgiving (for yourself, not for them).
✔ Shift your mindset from “I have to do everything” to “I am supported.”
✔ Learn to trust with discernment—not everyone deserves access to you.
✔ Affirm daily: “I am worthy of love, ease, and abundance.”
Once you start healing, you’ll notice that your energy shifts, your reality shifts, and your manifestations start flowing in effortlessly.
What Is Survival Mode vs. Receiving Mode?
🔥 Survival Mode (Masculine Energy Imbalance)
- Overworking, overgiving, and feeling drained
- Controlling every detail, afraid to let go
- Struggling to receive help, love, or support
- Constantly proving your worth
🌙 Receiving Mode (Divine Feminine Energy)
- Trusting that everything you need is already making its way to you
- Allowing things to flow without forcing or chasing
- Receiving love, money, and blessings effortlessly
- Knowing your worth simply because you exist
The shift into receiving isn’t just about changing your mindset—it’s about changing your energy.
3 Steps to Enter Receiving Mode & Awaken Your Divine Feminine Energy
1. Release Control & Surrender to Flow
The first step in stepping into Divine Feminine energy is learning to let go of control.
I used to believe that if I didn’t do everything myself, nothing would get done. But when I finally surrendered, I saw that things started aligning for me in ways I never expected. The universe was always supporting me—I just needed to allow it.
💡 How to Release Control:
✔ Affirm: “I trust that everything is unfolding for me.”
✔ Let go of over-planning. Flow with life instead of forcing things.
✔ Practice saying yes to help, love, and support without guilt.
🌟 Lesson: When you stop forcing, things start flowing.
2. Embody Softness & Sensuality
Divine Feminine energy is about embracing your softness, intuition, and connection to your body.
For years, I ignored my body and emotions. I overthought everything and made decisions from logic instead of intuition. But the more I tapped into my feminine essence, the more magnetic and powerful I became.
💡 How to Awaken Your Feminine Energy:
✔ Move your body intuitively—dance, stretch, or do yoga.
✔ Take time to nurture yourself—wear soft fabrics, use body oils, or take long baths.
✔ Slow down and allow yourself to be present. Feminine energy is never rushed.
✔ Tap into your sensuality by appreciating beauty, indulging in delicious foods, and embracing your inner goddess.
🌟 Lesson: When you honor your softness, you amplify your power.
3. Open Yourself to Receiving Without Guilt
I used to feel guilty for receiving. Whether it was money, love, or compliments, I would always downplay it or try to give something in return.
But I had to learn that receiving is just as powerful as giving.
💡 How to Embrace Receiving:
✔ When someone offers to help, say YES without feeling guilty.
✔ Stop over-explaining yourself or feeling like you must “deserve” good things.
✔ Practice receiving compliments, gifts, and love without deflecting.
✔ Affirm: “I am worthy of receiving all that is meant for me.”
🌟 Lesson: Receiving is your birthright. Own it.
Sometimes, God Will Use Your Enemies to Bless You
One of the most powerful lessons I’ve learned is that blessings can come from unexpected places—even from people who once hurt you.
But let me be clear: This does not mean you should rely on or trust your enemies. It simply means that sometimes, God will allow people who meant harm to unintentionally become a part of your elevation.
I’ve experienced this firsthand. There were people I had to completely release—yet even after walking away, they still ended up contributing to my journey in ways I didn’t expect. Whether through finances, opportunities, or even pushing me to grow through their actions, they unknowingly helped align me with my purpose.
✨ The key? You don’t have to accept them back into your life to receive what’s meant for you. God will use anything and anyone to fulfill His plan—but that doesn’t mean you owe them access to your energy.
Use Your Discernment, Trust Your Intuition & Stay Blessed
Stepping into your Divine Feminine energy isn’t just about attracting abundance—it’s about moving through life with grace, wisdom, and power.
💡 Final Reminders:
✔ Heal your inner wounds first so you can attract positive outcomes.
✔ Use discernment—god may use your enemies, but they do not need access to your energy.
✔ Trust your intuition—it will never steer you wrong.
✔ Know that you are worthy of receiving, effortlessly and abundantly.
✨ Let go. Trust the flow. Open yourself to receiving.
You are already divine. It’s time to own it.
